"The Geography Lesson" by Louis-Léopold Boilly‘The Greatest Time of Fatherhood’ and Other Poems by Russel Winick The Society March 3, 2025 Beauty, Culture, Poetry 12 Comments . The Greatest Time of Fatherhood I know that I’m supposed to say The finest time is now—today. And with all their accomplishments, That would indeed make lots of sense. And yet the greatest time of all To me was back when they were small— With boundless joy they would disperse To Mom and I their universe. . . The Ultimate Cause It’s often said money tears people apart, But I’m not sure that’s actually true. As money just seems like a commonplace start For what unchecked emotions can do. . . Interruptions So massive was their interruption It destroyed my train of thought. A blatant etiquette corruption, Far from decency that’s taught. I started to express my outrage As their unrepentance grew, Until I suddenly could presage They’d point out I do it too. . . Maturity With age the more it seems to me The best part of maturity Is that which bothered me before I just don’t let it anymore. . . Ability to Say “No” My well-off uncle asked if as executor I’d serve. He sensed how on his passing things would go. Thus when I asked: “Why me?” He said because I’d have the nerve, When people come for favors to say “no.” . . Russel Winick recently started writing poetry after ending a long legal career. He resides in Naperville, Illinois. NOTE TO READERS: If you enjoyed this poem or other content, please consider making a donation to the Society of Classical Poets. The Society of Classical Poets does not endorse any views expressed in individual poems or commentary. 12 Responses Susan Jarvis Bryant March 3, 2025 Russel, you always entice and excite me with your tantalizing tidbits of wisdom and these Monday morning treats are no exception. My favorites are “The Greatest Time of Fatherhood” and “Maturity”. We aim for independence and success for our children, but when they achieve just that… oh for those days when you were their universe… a lovely image. I’m just reaching that stage in my life where I thoroughly appreciate your take on “Maturity”… which leads nicely into your closing poem. Russel, you’re one sagacious poet! Thank you! Reply Russel Winick March 3, 2025 I’m not sure that I deserve those words, Susan, but I do thank you for them! Reply Roy Eugene Peterson March 3, 2025 Ah, the wonders and wisdom of the world of Winick. Each poem is a winsome delight of life experiences. Reply Russel Winick March 3, 2025 I’m quite sure I don’t know a single thing that you don’t also know, but thank you Roy! Reply Cheryl A Corey March 3, 2025 My favorite of this group is “Maturity”. Amen to that. You just have such a gift for these witticisms. Keep ’em coming! Reply Russel Winick March 3, 2025 Thank you Cheryl. You’re very kind, and I’ll try. Reply Margaret Coats March 4, 2025 On “The Greatest Time of Fatherhood,” another wise man says, “Little kids, little problems; big kids, big problems.” I prefer the present time in any case, but thanks be to God, my children’s adult problems are not enormous. Of your other observations here, the ultimate is accurate. It is much easier to forgive debts than to forget the raw chaos of unchecked emotions. You do well to follow “The Ultimate Cause” with “Interruptions,” because the best way to face outrage and unrepentance is to remember one’s own weaknesses and comprehend that others have them too. Easier said than done, but maturity brings occasions to practice the principle. You think so much on these things, Russel, that I’m sure you have plenty of practice in self-discipline. Best wishes as this kind of good life goes on! Reply Russel Winick March 4, 2025 Thank you Margaret, for another intellectually rigorous review. Much appreciated. I do try to think productively about the subjects I address, and perhaps even more so I listen to wise people – like you – and learn from them. Reply Jeff Eardley March 4, 2025 Russel? five wonderful reflections on the human condition, particularly Fatherhood. I hope that well-off uncle of yours isn’t having second thoughts. Reply Russel Winick March 4, 2025 Thank you Jeff. I made every decision as I surmised my uncle would have wanted me too. And – in homage to your amusing poem yesterday – I’ll add that surely there will someday be an opportunity to ask him how I did! Reply Yael March 8, 2025 These good and well-worded observations are a pleasure to read and contemplate, thank you. Reply Geoffrey Smagacz March 8, 2025 “The Ability to Say ‘No'” is cleverly stated. I can identify. Reply Leave a Reply Cancel ReplyYour email address will not be published.CommentName* Email* Website Δ This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.
Susan Jarvis Bryant March 3, 2025 Russel, you always entice and excite me with your tantalizing tidbits of wisdom and these Monday morning treats are no exception. My favorites are “The Greatest Time of Fatherhood” and “Maturity”. We aim for independence and success for our children, but when they achieve just that… oh for those days when you were their universe… a lovely image. I’m just reaching that stage in my life where I thoroughly appreciate your take on “Maturity”… which leads nicely into your closing poem. Russel, you’re one sagacious poet! Thank you! Reply
Russel Winick March 3, 2025 I’m not sure that I deserve those words, Susan, but I do thank you for them! Reply
Roy Eugene Peterson March 3, 2025 Ah, the wonders and wisdom of the world of Winick. Each poem is a winsome delight of life experiences. Reply
Russel Winick March 3, 2025 I’m quite sure I don’t know a single thing that you don’t also know, but thank you Roy! Reply
Cheryl A Corey March 3, 2025 My favorite of this group is “Maturity”. Amen to that. You just have such a gift for these witticisms. Keep ’em coming! Reply
Margaret Coats March 4, 2025 On “The Greatest Time of Fatherhood,” another wise man says, “Little kids, little problems; big kids, big problems.” I prefer the present time in any case, but thanks be to God, my children’s adult problems are not enormous. Of your other observations here, the ultimate is accurate. It is much easier to forgive debts than to forget the raw chaos of unchecked emotions. You do well to follow “The Ultimate Cause” with “Interruptions,” because the best way to face outrage and unrepentance is to remember one’s own weaknesses and comprehend that others have them too. Easier said than done, but maturity brings occasions to practice the principle. You think so much on these things, Russel, that I’m sure you have plenty of practice in self-discipline. Best wishes as this kind of good life goes on! Reply
Russel Winick March 4, 2025 Thank you Margaret, for another intellectually rigorous review. Much appreciated. I do try to think productively about the subjects I address, and perhaps even more so I listen to wise people – like you – and learn from them. Reply
Jeff Eardley March 4, 2025 Russel? five wonderful reflections on the human condition, particularly Fatherhood. I hope that well-off uncle of yours isn’t having second thoughts. Reply
Russel Winick March 4, 2025 Thank you Jeff. I made every decision as I surmised my uncle would have wanted me too. And – in homage to your amusing poem yesterday – I’ll add that surely there will someday be an opportunity to ask him how I did! Reply
Yael March 8, 2025 These good and well-worded observations are a pleasure to read and contemplate, thank you. Reply