Photo of an empty nest.Poems for Parents Whose Children Are Going Away to College, by Paddy Raghunathan The Society June 4, 2023 Beauty, Humor, Pantoum, Poetry 6 Comments . Come September a pantoum Ohio State’s your home come September, Though we’ll be lonely, stuck as empty nesters. Our home will be without its central member, When college life will beckon each semester. Though we’ll be lonely, stuck as empty nesters, We’ll always cherish memories of you as a child. When college life will beckon each semester, We’ll keep on cheering you, from many miles. We’ll always cherish memories of you as a child, And watch you grow up into a young man. We’ll keep on cheering you, from many miles, And offer guidance when you need a hand. Watching you grow up into a young man Will make us proud and a bit wistful too. Offering guidance when you need a hand, We’ll help you navigate a world that’s new. You’ll make us proud and a bit wistful too. Our home will be without its central member, As you go navigate a world that’s new. Ohio State’s your home come September. . . Teaching You Right from Wrong Almost at once, why this innate desire To both admonish you and give you a hug? Righting your wrongs is such a deep quagmire You’ve trapped us in, then swallowed with a shrug. How dare we tell you, “Now it’s time for bed,” While you, our sweet child, need another second To finish tightening your Lego Head Or race with Donkey Kong whose larks have beckoned? Who granted us the right to make you eat Your meals within the bounds we stipulate, And limit the screen time you amply treat Yourself to, preach that you not stay up late? Teaching you right from wrong has left us drained— Quite like the time we got you potty-trained. . . Paddy Raghunathan is an IT Project Manager. His poems have appeared in Time Of Singing, A Journal For Christian Poetry, and in Ohio Poetry Association’s annual and ekphrastic anthologies. A translation of his from the Hindi language is featured in May 2023’s Creativity Webzine. In 2020, one of his sonnets appeared in the Cuyahoga County Library’s April Poetry Month collection online. In 2022, he was also a judge in Time Of Singing’s Ekphrastic Poetry Contest. NOTE TO READERS: If you enjoyed this poem or other content, please consider making a donation to the Society of Classical Poets. The Society of Classical Poets does not endorse any views expressed in individual poems or commentary. CODEC Stories:Share this:Click to share on Twitter (Opens in new window)Click to share on Facebook (Opens in new window)Click to print (Opens in new window)Click to share on LinkedIn (Opens in new window)Click to share on WhatsApp (Opens in new window)Click to email a link to a friend (Opens in new window)Click to share on Pinterest (Opens in new window) 6 Responses Roy Eugene Peterson June 4, 2023 Paddy, those are two precious poems that had me recollect my feelings from the past in dealing with my children and their departure for college, knowing that they were now becoming adults and off to make their own mark in the world. Reply Paddy Raghunathan June 4, 2023 Roy, Thank you for the kind words, and happy the poems resonated! Best regards, Paddy Reply Allegra Silberstein June 4, 2023 These lovely poems brought back memories for me. too. Your pantoum was elegant. Reply Paddy Raghunathan June 5, 2023 Appreciate your feedback Allegra. Paddy Reply Paul Freeman June 5, 2023 I’m going through these scenarios right now, Paddy. I take solace in your poems. Reply Paddy Raghunathan June 5, 2023 Paul, Parenthood is both a joy and a lot of work. Glad you find solace in these poems! Paddy Reply Leave a Reply Cancel ReplyYour email address will not be published.CommentName* Email* Website Captcha loading...In order to pass the CAPTCHA please enable JavaScript. Notify me of follow-up comments by email. Notify me of new posts by email. Δ This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.
Roy Eugene Peterson June 4, 2023 Paddy, those are two precious poems that had me recollect my feelings from the past in dealing with my children and their departure for college, knowing that they were now becoming adults and off to make their own mark in the world. Reply
Paddy Raghunathan June 4, 2023 Roy, Thank you for the kind words, and happy the poems resonated! Best regards, Paddy Reply
Allegra Silberstein June 4, 2023 These lovely poems brought back memories for me. too. Your pantoum was elegant. Reply
Paul Freeman June 5, 2023 I’m going through these scenarios right now, Paddy. I take solace in your poems. Reply
Paddy Raghunathan June 5, 2023 Paul, Parenthood is both a joy and a lot of work. Glad you find solace in these poems! Paddy Reply